Obsession is bad. There was this guy who I used to talk to. I am basically polite by nature. So I used to talk to him politely. He used to text, I used to reply. I thought he was a decent guy. Few months back I was very busy with my work. So I could not reply to his texts. His attitude completely changed when I did not reply. He became dominating kind of, asking me to keep my attitude to myself blah blah….. This annoyed me. I decided not to communicate at all. I stopped talking. He kept on saying shit to me. He would verbally abuse me. I had to block him from Whatsapp and Facebook. He was very annoying. He kept sending me texts for like 3 4 months constantly, using cuss words and occasionally sweet words to lure me in into unblocking him. I told him very clearly that I was not interested in him. Which is why he reacted the way he did. Some men can’t take rejection at all I think. But that does not mean you force a person to do things he/she does not want to do. I felt like beating the shit out of him. But being civilized, avoided it. Work, parents, pervs… God…. so many things one has to manage….